Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Human nature

One of the neatest things about having a child is the window it offers into human nature.

From month one, Claire has taught us that some behaviors and drives are simply ingrained in us.

I'm not talking about crying and pooping and drooling. I'm talking about the little things we overlook. Claire rubbed her eyes when she's tired without anyone teaching her.

We've seen more examples of unlearned behaviors recently.



She started feeding us (and the dog) on her own. From where did her drive to share come?

Now, she's copying our actions.

Last weekend, when Sarah was sick, she started mimicking Sarah's cough, with a smile. Two days later, when both of us were blowing our noses, Claire got a hold of a couple tissues on our bed and held them up to each one of our faces.

Then, there's her drive to push carts and strollers....



Yesterday she started mooing at a picture of a cow (Her "moo" sounds more like "oooooou").

This morning, as I was getting dressed, she put a pair of Sarah's undies over her head.

This afternoon, while I was home from work watching her, she stood up and walked from the middle of the carpet to the end of our bed on her own. I believe that to be the first time she's done that by herself.

Some of these are learned behaviors. Some just innate drive.

Either way, she's on her way.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

She's turning into a grown up kid! I wish I lived closer so I could see her more often. MT

Anonymous said...

I guessed it, Michelle would be the first to comment. Let's all move to Portland, Michelle! It's time to get away from this NM-AZ heat.

I must say that this grown up little kid has two good role models. Sounds like Claire wants to learn to dress herself!! MH

Anonymous said...

Claire's a chip off the old paternal grandfather block She demonstrates a sensitivity to those who are hungry & to those who are sick Like Grandpa Claire eagerly wants to learn new activities. I can hardly wait to see her again.